My Biggest Fan

You know who you are...I know you read my blogs. You will try and find anything to bring the opposition down. You must sit up late at night and stare deep into the mirror, staring through your own eyes looking for some sort of life. What I do know, is that there is beauty inside everyone...or is there? You continue to amaze me...all that education, all of that book knowledge, but you missed the day when they were teaching life skills, basic human connections. I think I'm a pretty good judge of character...I see you with salt and pepper super duper grease bomb hair with a scrunched up face as if you were about to take a lead pipe up the arse.
Keep sending me those emails, and I'll keep making you look like the lemon sucking, ugly wool pants wearing, major grease bomb hair dumb ass wanna-be you are.

Whew...that was pretty much a gramarical nightmare..lol. Please don't think I'm an angry or bitter person or take pleasure in name calling. I am a Dad who is on a friggen rampage to call out all of the shit head lawyers who have no idea what harm they actually cause families. When there are children involved, the emotions are heightened and the blood tends to boil a little hotter. Don't get me wrong, there are good lawyers...but there are also the ambulance chasers!

I love that you are a fan of the blogs, keep staring into those dark eyes, keep looking hard for some sort of life. I will continue to call you out to the public...you already have created a black mark for yourself and your firm. Please don't forget that you are in family law...there are children involved, it's not about you winning you selfish git. Have a great night once again sleeping alone!

They Sleep Alone

If you have never been inside the walls of Supreme Court, you are probably one of the lucky ones...or are you?
I consider myself extremely fortunate, I have experienced many great things in my life. I've travelled to different countries with sport, I've managed to dip my toes in the warm hawaii waters. All of the great things we have or get to experience in life, we enjoy them more when we have been dealt some sucker punches along the way. I believe...that the tough times in life really allow us to appreciate the great times even more. We take the time to look at our kids in the eyes when they're speaking to us, we tuck them into bed at night scratching their back and telling stories.
I've been in and out of Supreme court since early 2012, but why Supreme court...why do lawyers file in Supreme Court for a could be simple family matter? Well...simple! That's where the money is, not for our kids anymore, but for the lawyers who prey and somehow convince themselves that they are in a profession to help families...BULLSHIT! I have personally seen and had to deal with lawyers who most definately have had nothing but themselves as a priority. I've tried calling them out...but they threaten to "sue" for slander, to keep the sqeaky wheel quiet...this is their bread and butter, preying on conflict, preying on weakness and heightened emotions.
I took a moment while I had my last visit to court...just curious to see who was wearing a wedding band. I know that sounds rediculous, but I was making a point to myself that this lawyer in particular, this lawyer who has a career in family law supposed to be helping families resolve issues...this lawyer was not married, NO SURPRISE! This lawyer most definately goes home alone, has dinner alone...and worst of all SLEEPS ALONE! This lawyer finds commitment in the court room, this is a place where the orgasms happen, the sick twisted erotic fucked up part of their mind knows that all they care about is winning. Is it winning?...Hell no, they are the biggest loser in society and they know it.
I'll be back to Hawaii someday, I'll tuck my kids into bed each night and love all over them. At least I can crawl into bed each night and fall asleep peacefully beside my partner. You know who you are...I actually feel sorry for you, or am I supposed to say that?...I don't know and at this point I couldn't give a shite right now if you were to fall off the face of the earth, can you imagine how many other people feel that way about you...have a nice life...have a peacefull sleep alone.

Dischord

I created this blog as a way for me to speak out against the unfair treatment of fathers who are going through the court system for a divorce. I understand that by focusing primarily on the injustice of it all, I take the risk of sounding like a whiner. I also acknowledge the fact that just because I am willing to be an open book on here, the internet is an unreliable source for being able to be truly understood. 

However, I have to start somewhere. The purpose of this blog is to speak out just enough so that the next guy in line doesn’t feel alone when it’s his turn to face the divorce court system. We can better handle adversity if we know we’re not going through it by ourselves. As time goes on and more voices are spoken and heard then maybe one day I can blog about how to cook the perfect turkey, but for right now, I’m pissed off and people are going to hear about it.